This is for the anon that asked me for advice about boy stuff. Honestly, I’m probably not the one you most likely should be getting advice from. However, I’m going to go ahead and say that boys in general who need to be chased and pinned down and pursued and cried over in an awful way generally aren’t worth your time. Of course, it is worth investing the time to have him take notice, to let him to get to know you. But someone treating you like the way you say he is, and how he treats other girls probably indicates that he ain’t all that great of a thing anyway. Think about it this way. Even if one day he is yours and really does likes you and settles down, you’ll know that you were his second choice, which is what you say you are right now. I don’t know whether or not you’d become his first choice, but if you can live with that, then pursue it. If you don’t feel like that’s the way to go, then forget the man and look for someone better, because you probably deserve better than being second. Humble opinion and all.
Best of luck in love. Girls who seem to have nice relationships don’t have it all. They eventually end sometime, unless they’re truly lucky.